Reading my news feed, I see a lot of people "blasting" people on their news feeds via status updates and pictures...For some reason, groups of people take time out of their days to attack people online, usually using the most profane language they can think of to demean the other person and calling them names and revealing their personal business to all their fb friends.
Now, while this behavior is wrong for many different reasons, the most appalling part of this is that these people are all adults, usually over 25 yrs of age. And these people are spending hours of their time cussing at people, revealing secrets, calling names and threatening them via fb.
I don't necessarily see what there is to gain by doing this. I guess that maybe your "friends" will see how "hard" you are and how "real" you keep it and give you "props" on fb. But, that begs the question: How important are fb props, anyway?
I mean, do people pay you according to how many "likes" you get on your status? No? Well, maybe you get a raise based on how mean you are to that "skank" that slept with your man? No? Well maybe you just enjoy being an asswipe? yes? That's it?
Maybe some of you "grown" people don't realize that what you put online can be viewed by millions of people. Including your employers and prospective employers. How many jobs can you get by calling someone a "rolling ass ho" or "dirty dick nigga"? None? I didnt think so.
And also, since most of the repeat offenders are adults with small, reading age children, do any of you consider how your children will view you once they read this? Or do you even care? Maybe you figure that your children won't read this, so it doesn't matter, but what about the children of your "victim"?
Why do we as females (and I am saying "females" because we tend to be the offenders) demean ourselves online for the sake of our reputations? I mean, think about it: if you are confronting a woman online and bashing her all over fb because she slept with or is sleeping with your boyfriend, husband, baby father, etc, then have you ever taken the time to consider how stupid you look? I mean, he DID cheat on you and this woman legitimately had sexual access to your "man" and he lied to you and did this behind your back, but the woman is to blame? You defend his actions by saying she didn't mean anything to him but call her the stupid slut.
THIS JUST IN:
You don't mean anything to him either. Or else, he wouldn't have to gone to such great lengths to carry on the affair.
And all the crap you are talking on facebook ultimately does nothing but needlessly harrass the person you are attacking and making yourself look like the biggest moron ever.
It had to be said.
Stop fb thugging and handle your business (whatever that may be) in person, as adults.
And if he cheated on you, please don't waste your energy being mad at the mistress, be mad at him for disrespecting you like that.
The truth, the whole and nuttin but.
Stay Tuned
You right this had to be said; it is not worth yourself respect, or to be victimized twice, because after all is said and done; you and your children still have to live with the embarrassment you wrote on line on face book. Once you get over the hurt and pain and move on with your life; what is written online will follow you forever. Let's Keep it real; the children did not ask for it, and the guy just not worth It.!! This guy is going to eventually move on with his life; it may take a while, but trust me if he does not move on, then life with him is most likely going to be miserable. I can only suggest; that the female take notice to the added drama this love affair has brought into her life, then ask; is it worth it. Look at it this way; when he cheated on you; most likely he cheated on the other female as well; Guys are known to be untruthful when it comes to getting what they want. However, what the guy has really done is cheated his self out of having a good woman in his life; where will he end up? Most likely nowhere; with no one; or with no family; so who has he really cheated?
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