For the last few days I have been on the receiving end of drama. Not an active member, but since I am an awesome listener, people tend to vent to me about their mess. I don't necessarily mind, usually. But I hate when people vent then ask "what should I do?" and when I tell them, they give me 7,000 reasons why they shouldn't follow my advice.
Take for example:
Girl is with guy. Guy treats girl like crap. Girl cries about how much of a dog he is, how she shouldnt be with him, how her life would be better without him. Girl asks: What would you do?
I would leave him and start over. Period.
The next 30 mins of conversation is about how much potential he has, how good he treats her sometimes, how much she loves him and why leaving him is a bad idea. Girl says: I'm so confused.
No you're not. You're freakin retarded. And in denial. But mostly retarded.
Please do not ask for advice if you are not willing to take it. and please don't waste my time talking me to death about a situation that you have no intention on changing or improving. and dont ask me a question that you dont want an honest answer to.
And speaking of drama, I have seen an overflow of people airing their stained drawls on fb every day, every minute. and it seems the status updates are getting more out of control, raunchy and hoodrattish every moment.
It's one thing to use your fb page to express your feelings or vent about something that has angered or upset you. it is quite another thing to take fb and use it as a stage where your whole sordid affair will be played out. As one of the people who unfortunately reads your updates, please note:
most of us dont care about who youre banging (outside of grinning and shaking our heads at how much of a slut you are)
most of us dont care about how much of a douche your last conquest is, as you found out once you met his wife or her husband (whichever applies) and when you "blast" them on fb, it just makes you look like a moron for sleeping with them in the first place when you obviously didnt take the time to get to know them
**side note** when you take time to say how much this person (who has apparently lied/cheated on you and hurt your feelings) didnt mean anything to you, how much you hated them from the start, how youre in love with someone else anyway, so the loser was just second best, please please PLEASE take the time to erase all of your previous statuses that professed love to this person so you dont look even dumber than you do now (if thats possible)
I totally agree with putting people who deserve it on blast, but you cant blast someone who you allowed to treat you like crap. People will do what you allow them to, and when you slept with them on the first night without knowing their name, only met up with them at night and went home right after, was happy just to have them buy you clothes or shoes, but never met the parents or families, and you just didnt want more for yourself, you ALLOWED them to play you. Dont blast them for your own mistake, blast yourself. My bad, you already are. All over my news feed.
I would touch on "relationships gone bad" but that is a totally different and strenuous matter that I must touch on separately, so that you all get the "full feel" for it.
Many of these fb offenders are repeat offenders and there are many readers that feel as I do, but wont say. We keep you on our newsfeeds solely for entertainment. Sometimes I will even look some of you up, just to read your newsfeed for my daily laugh. You guys are jokes. Somebody had to say it. Might as well be me.
Stay tuned.
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